Ayo Eniwaye, a 31-year-old man, pleaded guilty to multiple charges of aggravated harassment and stalking on Friday. This plea follows a series of disturbing allegations made against him in January, when he was accused of sending death threats to a woman named Helena Black. Black reported that Eniwaye’s threats were both graphic and menacing, including comments like, “I’m going to burn your house down,” and “you’re going to be the next Gabby Petito,” referencing the tragic case of the young woman whose murder garnered national attention. Eniwaye’s actions led to his arrest and he has been in custody since January for violating an injunction placed against him.
The emotional toll on Black has been significant, as she described how the harassment turned her life upside down between September 2023 and his arrest in January. She noted that she was forced to move multiple times out of fear for her safety. Black emphasized that Eniwaye appeared to have an obsessive fixation towards her, suggesting a deeply personal motive behind his threatening behavior. The nature of his threats contributed to an environment of constant fear and anxiety that Black was forced to navigate during this tumultuous period.
In her statements, Black pointed out the grim reality of stalking cases, noting the unfortunate frequency with which victims are often found murdered after similar harassment. She articulated her relief at surviving the ordeal, stating, “It’s kind of rare to see a victim that wasn’t murdered. We always hear about them after they die.” This statement underscores the urgency and seriousness of stalking as a crime and the potential consequences that can arise if such behavior is left unchecked. Eniwaye’s guilty plea and subsequent sentencing provide a moment of accountability in a situation that could have ended tragically.
Following the resolution of her case, Black has decided to take proactive steps to empower others who may find themselves in similar situations. She intends to utilize her experiences to educate women online about safety and self-protection strategies against stalkers, whether they are strangers or individuals from past relationships. By sharing her story, she hopes to raise awareness and provide guidance to others who may feel vulnerable. Black’s advocacy efforts reflect a desire not only to heal personally but also to contribute positively to the wider community concerning issues of harassment and stalking.
Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of documentation for anyone facing similar harassment. Black encourages victims to keep records of every threatening message or phone call, as such documentation can be crucial in legal proceedings. She pointed out a troubling societal trend where attention, particularly unwanted, is often romanticized or trivialized, stating, “This is something we’ve grown very used to in society and we almost romanticize the attention. However, it’s not romantic but it’s terrifying.” Her remarks serve as a chilling reminder that stalking is a serious issue that requires urgent attention and action.
For individuals in distress or those who suspect they are being stalked or harassed online, Black’s case serves as a testimony of resilience and the possibility of justice. Resources are available for those needing help, including local law enforcement or the Victim Connect Resource Center, which can be reached at 855-484-2846. Black’s story emphasizes the paramount importance of safety awareness and the vital role of community support in addressing and combatting stalking and harassment in today’s digital age.